Lies = Death of Love

It amazes me how the world seems to think that lying to the one you love can shelter them from further pain. One statement I have heard over and over again is, "I wanted to avoid confrontation", or "I didn't want to hurt them". That is grade A bull****! Lies only make things worse.

Communication between anyone who cares for another is the most important part of any relationship. Honesty with not only the person you care about, but yourself is where we find the most issues. Starting with being honest with yourself, we too often lie about what makes us happy, we settle. We lie about what bothers us and settle. Man or woman we deserve to be heard by even our own minds. Once you start acknowledging truths in your own life, being honest with those around you will be easier.

Lies are the Death of Love, ignorance may be bliss but it is not equal to trust. Honesty in full is what real trust is. This does not mean you need to belittle anyone, be harsh, or be unkind. It does mean to be clear and understand who you are communicating with. Even verbiage can confuse so know you audience. The confrontation may be uncomfortable but if you care at all it is better to address things than hide them.